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Alhamdulillah! :D

I am finally married to my First Boyfriend.

Honestly, a Wedding shouldn't be about getting the most expensive, well-known brand name nor does it mean you get the cheapest vendor lepas tu takot sendiri bile vendor cabut. No it was never about that. Don't go around babbling, nikah je cukup. Honestly? Who wouldn't want to share the joy of Nikah infront of Allah S.W.T and HIS servants?

Make sure, that whoever vendor you're getting-its affordable to you. 

Yes you are allowed to have Bridesmaids, but please, don't start to compete in getting the MOST number of bridesmaid just cause your enemy has hers/his.

The hantaran thing? JANGAN SUSAHKAN PIHAK LELAKI FOR THOSE YANG MATA JUWITAN. Simple right? Unless you want to get married owing people hell loads of money.

And I bet, no one would have told you that you'll be Home Sick if you're staying with your in laws more than yours or that you already have your own place. I was homesick and had trouble sleeping. But Alhamdulillah, with a supportive husband, insyaAllah it will all be good.

The joy of getting married to the Man I love other than my father and brothers, is just splendid, Masya'Allah!

Let me just share the experiences through the various photos below in no order of events.

These were the vendors we took:

I have yet to feel the jitters. Perhaps I will be when I'm going to do my own bridal henna. Nyehehehe.


As of now, past few weeks has been chaotic. So much drama lah from unnecessary people. At the same time, I have been helping his elder cousin to prepare the photobooth at his place of reception. Pretty exciting cause the Boss is quite good with getting the right stuffs to put into place. CANNOT WAIT TO SEE THE OUTCOME!


Since this is my last "free" weekend as a single lady, I got to work in preparing the dulang-dulang hantaran yaw. Dengan tak mandi pagi, I did the following:





It's simple to me... And I did all of this from scratch with the help of my cute siblings. Kirekan berkat titik peluh pengantin? Hehe. I don't mind sharing cause people will end up seeing this next week. I doubt I will have time to be updating my blog soon right after the wedding. But whatever it is- people can say what they want.


We went for our last fitting the past Wednesday. I loveeeeeeee all the dresses I wore from Yani Mariposa Bridal. Macam nice like that. Hehe.





Ala mak, kahwin kan aku!

I'm sure today's topic that I wish to bring up, may be taboo to a large group of people. Being given the opportunity listen to other bride-to-be's, close friends, and colleagues, this topic of the "bakal's", it could easily lead to creating a heated topic for people wanting to step in the world of marriage.

I'm not trying to say everyone will experience every single thing that should arise with the new family members, it's more of having to experience at least a dugaan or two between your future-in-laws. This does not limit to just your parents to be, it extends to, for some, those who have yet to be family to his family or her family (for the groom-to-be). AND sometimes these non-anomaly (dah normal dah tu sebab) is seen within your own extended family. 

Let's look at the big picture- Boy likes girl, girl likes boy, boy sees parents, both sides okay = Nikah  and reception that's super nice to be able to blow peoples' mind off and live happily ever after.

So this is the supposed beautifully painted picture. But I think some forgot that when you're getting married, you'll be getting married to his parents too, as well as the siblings and extended relatives of his.

sometimes, his relatives would show that they dislike you, and you're not even married yet, how? what about those who are not in his family, but has a negative influence to bring you down? what about parents who love the other in law more than you?

What do you think, should be done?